Thanks for a superb and powerful piece. I could have really learnt from that, years ago yet feel my prior experience makes me ripe to really feel and integrate these insights for now and onwards. I feel you are so right to point us, your readers, to the energetics involved, assessing the relationship readiness of a guy (even when there is mutual attraction) and valuing the fine, precious energy of heart, body, mind, spirit. I value the thought and depth in all of your writing James and wanted to express that today. Sincerely, Dionysia