AND thanks for sharing this with women... I have started this practice a while well as the one of letting men know what would please me so that they do not have to read my mind You are really the best coach out there James..You are very generous with your information... Do you have an older brother... ...and yes, I have bought one of your courses but for the life of me I do not know where I hid it..that said, I get a lot out of your generous posts as well. With Great Respect, Debra