This is the best advise i have received ever... and believe me i have been reading quite a few of them over the past years. More over, I used to be in finance where I applied this technique. you are a genius to have transplanted this idea to relationships.... I have been very sad for the last couple of months about a person... but in one mail you have made me feel so much better, you cannot begin to imagine. and you are so right...!!! Thank you for that and keep up the good work. A faithfull reader Best regards, Catherine