This tip can help you get closer and make him feel important.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Can I tell you a secret?” Doesn’t everyone want to know a secret? He’ll feel important. Trusted. More connected to you. Plus, all he has to do is respond with a one-word answer, making it ideal for texting. Ever feel like...

Show him you care about what he wants with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What will you do to [achieve the desired goal]?” This question lets you slip into the role of his confidant about plans for chasing after his heart’s desire.   Examples: “What will you do to get that promotion you were...

Take off the pressure with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I enjoy sharing random thoughts with people I like. Just so you know, there’s no pressure to respond. Is that okay?” He will say yes. That opens the doors to building a relationship with him over time, no matter how busy he...

Is there something you wish your man did more often? Use this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Every time you ______ you ______.” This powerful phrase allows you to encourage behaviors that draw you closer. Use it to show him the link between his actions and the outcomes you care about.   Examples: “Every time...

Tap into his desire and pique his interest with this question.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What do you want _______?” Bend this powerful question in any direction you like. It taps into desire, which will naturally raise his interest in the conversation. It works for both shallow and deep topics. Examples: “What...