He Doesn’t Make Me Feel Special

He takes you for granted. He didn’t used to. He used to text you all the time. He used to beg to see you. Now? He never has time. He’s always got other things going on. How can you make him go back to the way he was? Do you: Greet him at the door dressed in your...

I Can’t Stop Thinking about My Ex

“Oh, James. I really messed it up.” Olivia was sitting in my office with her head in her hands. When she and her boyfriend broke up last month, she thought she’d handled it well. She kept her feelings under control. They had a mature conversation and parted on...

10 Reasons Why Your Ex Keeps Texting You After The Breakup

Why is he doing this? He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you. He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one? Could it be that he’s missing you? Does he regret breaking up with you? Does...

Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”

“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....

Signs You’re Emotionally Disconnected (And How to Feel Close Again)

When you are upset, what does your guy do? Does he listen to you… Emotionally validate you… And support you until you feel better? Or does he vanish on you? When you need him, he’s just not there. If he WAS there, he’d just tell you not to get so upset. He’d tell you...

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend

You knew you said the wrong thing the instant it came out of your mouth. You could see it in his face. The instant coldness. The refusal to look at you. The blunt way he said he had to leave. You gave him a few days to let it blow over, then you messaged him with a...