Show him that you pay attention to his interests…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Pick one of his interests and ask about it. Make it timely. Examples: “ESPN just did a story on your team. Think they’re going to have a good year?” “I just read about this new brewery opening up. Heard anything about it?”...

Reach out via text about his recent social media post…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week If you’re already friends on social media and he posts something interesting, comment on it via text instead of on social media. Examples: “Hey, saw the new pic you posted! Where did you learn to take pictures like that?”...

Show him you’re thinking of him with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Did you see this?” Accompany the message with a video, link to information, or meme related to his interests. Bonus points if it’s an activity you can do together. It’ll show him you’re thinking about him and pay attention...

Try an activity he likes and send him this text…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Do something you know he enjoys. For example, hiking, swimming, cycling, watching his favorite TV show. Send a picture of the activity with the simple line: “This made me think of you.” While not a direct request to talk,...

Discussing risks you’ve taken can show him who you are.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Well, I took the plunge. I finally ______. And it was great/horrible. Taken any risks of your own lately? The types and level of risk you’re willing to take say a lot about who you are. Start by introducing a recent risk...