He Won’t Work on the Relationship

He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I don’t care how you feel.” “I can’t be bothered to lift a finger.” “You’re not worth of my effort.” You’re...

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And if you start dating, you’ll eventually ask yourself the question: “Could I be with him forever?” At each stage,...

Here’s a tip with compliments and request his advice.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Hey, you’re super fit and I am desperately in need of a new gym. Where do you work out?” This one hits a nice trifecta by asking for advice, offering a throwaway compliment, and providing him with a question that he can...

Show him you value his opinion.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I have friends visiting for the weekend and I’m stumped on where to take them. Any ideas?” Guys love it when you show that you value their opinions and trust them enough to ask for their help. Plus, you may get to learn...

Let him know he’s on your mind…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Let him know he’s on your mind: “I was ________ today and I swear I saw ________ for a second.” Examples: “I was going for a run today and I swear I saw your dog for a second.” “I was driving to work today, and for a second,...