Yes, You Still Need Boundaries in Love

When you meet a wonderful person and fall in love, it feels like fireworks bursting in the sky. It feels like you’ve opened the door to your soul and let someone in. It feels like you’re not alone anymore. Two have become one. You don’t want to be apart from him for...

Can He Grow Old with You?

If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants to get married someday, too. But what a man says isn’t necessarily what he does. You can find yourself with a...

He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change

Imagine you’re playing a board game with this really cute, amazing guy. You can tell he really likes you, too. Eventually, you notice that every time you play this game with him, you end up winning. So you start paying closer attention to how he’s playing… And, sure...

How To Override Relationship Negativity

Panic. That’s what Rachel felt. She just knew that Daniel was losing interest. He was still going out with the guys one night a week. He hadn’t talked to her about summer plans. He barely made an effort for Valentine’s Day. Surely, if he was really into her, he’d be...

3 Ways to Stop Settling

“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone better?” I’ve heard so many women ask some version of Amanda’s question. (I’ve heard men ask this question, too.) How...