Your research and advice was invaluable.
My boyfriend has changed from being distant and too busy to see me - and now the opposite is true.
I kept being patient for ages. Then I read the section about not bottling it all up, fuming inside. Instead I told him by text how I felt - in a nice way, full of compliments.
He immediately asked to see me, he couldn't wait!
We had a lovely time, and I listened well, talked a bit, following your guidance on the power and beauty of silence.
I could write a lot more, but for now, I just want to say thank you, thank you x 100!