[Emilie S]

Hmm i knew i will forget to answer atleast one question…yes he is single he told me this the first day we spoke again together. But i don’t know much about it didn’t really asked anything in fact.
He is 32 and i am 33.

[Emilie S]

Oh one more thing, we didn’t speak since 2 days…I guess if i’m not taking news from him he isn’t either…For the moment i’m a bit on a silent mode…

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi,

Thanks much for your answer 🙂

I’ll try to answer all your questions 🙂

No my best friend isn’t aware about my attraction to her cousin, not sure she would mine or not. She was making joke about us after her birthday party, and asked me if something happened as we spent the night together and when i said no she asked me if her cousin wasn’t good enough for me (atleast to me she didn’t asked anything to her cousin). I didn’t told her anything as of now because i was thinking there were not much to say as nothing happen in fact…She just knows we both talk together as i am the one who told her he has been in surgery for his knee. I met her last week and we spoke quickly about it, apparently he didn’t tell her the real reason about his injury…He told me they are not that close anymore in fact and that he was a bit sad about it. He also asked me if i told her we were both speaking and i said yes she knows i have some news about your health. He didn’t say anything about it…

I agreed on the fact that i didn’t react properly about his “not being a man thought” (i was still reading the course while speaking to him so wasn’t really sure of how to react …Thanks for the advice i’ll try it next time 😀

For his feeling of not being a man anymore, from what he shares there is a part of “social programming” as he is italian…and for his surgery he get his legs shaved and i know it really bother him…Also he likes to be a good looking guy and is not feeling like he is right now because he is exhausted. Apart from that there is also the fact that he can’t to sport right now and he is losing his muscle (it’s part of his vision of being good looking and being a man). He is what you call in the course a “socializer” kind of guy…

And for your last question, honestly i don’t have a clue and i didn’t knew how to ask without asking it directly so i just let things go…But i guess it’s because he doesn’t feel attractive, and he is feeling low and probably he thinks he can’t respond to any need as he is the one who need help for everything as he can’t walk and all…

Thanks again for your answer 🙂

Emilie

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