[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya

Thanks for your answer 🙂
Yes i am gonna take care of my tailbone but seems i can seat more now. I am still taking some painrelief but i decrease it so it’s cool 🙂
I can still manage to do Pole so i am happy !
For P yes he is stepping up right now let see if he is still doing it while back from holidays…i don’t want to go throught the same scenario with P than with J…i really don’t understand what happen with him. He might have meet someone else don’t but doesn’t seem he did…
But of course i’ll let you know what happen with my life 🙂
Thanks for your support
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi

Thanks much for your concern 🙂
I’ll go to meet my ostheopath once i’ll be back from Venise and hipefully i wonnt have this hematoma anymore 🙂

About J yes i have the feeling he is not putting much effort and at the same time he could think the same about me…As i never replied to him since he told me he was working…don’t know…i’d like to find a way to see if he is really not interested or just busy because he is changing his work right now.

About the pizza guy (P), in fact he invited me this last monday but i had such a hard week last week and not resting at all weekend i told him we would meet after my trip to Venise and his ski’s holidays. But yes he is ignitiating the talk and sending messages. He is also asking about my tailbone. I am not the one starting the conversation in fact. And yesterday he told me that we will definitely meet after his holidays…and yes we are talking almost everyday or atleast exchanging one message, if not i often have a « sweet night » message from him.

[Emilie S]

Hi
Just to let you know, yesterday i finally got an access to Netglix (wouhou lol) and shared on an insta storie that i would finally be able to catch up with « You » that i had start to watch with J when he came at my place. He answered to my storie with a « 🎉 ». I am boyh happy (because it means he is keeping the connection) but same time i don’t understand why he isn’t sending real message…i didn’t answered yet to him because i would like to « trigger his instinct » and get back to where we were before my holidays. At the same time i know i don’t have time to meet this week so …don’t really know what to do ? Any advice ?
Have a nice president day !
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi
I was about to write a message while i saw yours but i was running late to meet a friend so i didn’t get time to reply.
My tailbone isn’t broken and just a little bit shifted but nothing serious. it seems it’s just an hematoma which is hurting me a lot but it appears only this week so it might have been pretty deep…i’m still gonna see my osteopath to see if he can help a little with the shift part 🙂
For J i got an answer from him on monday afternoon telling me it was a nice proposal but unfortunately he was working that evening. I was a bit upset and tense that day because i had a hard day at work (in fact my whole week was pretty hard and i have been under lot of pressure) so i didn’t answer anything and i don’t have any news from him since then. I didn’t wanted to be the on who weite first after that as i was thinking he would come back to me once available but it didn’t happen…and i wasn’t really in a mood of « chasing him » as i had lot to do at work and i had my tailbone pain so…i let it go. To be honest i am « missing » our discussion and i would like to meet him again but i have already lots of plan this weekend …don’t really know if i should take some news or not ? I know he is starting a new job so he was busy and all…but still i am wondering why he isn’t giving any news even if once again i see him liking my instagram post or viewing my stories…
For P we discussed few time this week and we ended up saying that we should meet, i spoke about the pizza and he proposed an homemade one maybe this monday evening but we need to confirm.
I only have this evening free this week as i am still going to my pole class on tuesday and wednesday and i am leaving for Venise on thursday early morning…

[Emilie S]

Hi Ladies
I am back on track after my wonderful holidays’ week (except for the tailbone part lol)
I have my appointement tomorrow with the doctor…let see!
Apart from that J is acting « weird » i didn’t get any news from him since thursday even if he was « spying me » on insta…and just got a « hello » (gif) yesterday around noon. I answered in the afternoon and then again no news from him even if he still watched my insta…don’t really get it…i sent him a message out this morning saying that if he was available tonight and wanted to crossby my place (i have pain moving myself by car to be honest…so i am a bit avoiding it right now) he could feel free to join me. (That’s not the exact translation of my message). I just told myself it would be the last time i propose something, and will wait for him to chase me or not but in that case i will just forget him.
P sent me lot of messages on saturday and even yesterday evening to take some news about my pain and this morning but we still didn’t met and i am still waiting for him to invite me…maybe i should tell him to join if he doesn’t make a move by himself…don’t know…
Nevermind i am back in office and lot of work to do 😅😅 also i am focusing a little on my recovery…
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi !

Thanks i already plan to go to the doc and see if i can get a radio done. In fact it’s paining a lot while seating and standing…which i am doing all day long while skiing 😅😅 But i am trying not to focus on the pain and only on the great weather and snow 🙂 i really enjoy my holidays and the weather couldbnt be better i am really lucky !!

About the guys J finally sent me a message last night Hile i was sleeping…telling me he was tieed and sick but he hoped i was enjoying my time there. I replied to him this evening after my skiing day and told him i have a pretry good time except this injury at my tailbone. Also told him to get better 🙂 as you suggest i am not paying too much attention and just keep the connection and dialogue.

Thanks again for all your reply

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya !

Hehe nice to hear that i have been named after your grandma 😊

And yes i am enjoying, today was a great day full of sun and blue sky and great snow 🥰 we enjoyed skiing a lot ! And apparently it’s supposed to be the same until the end of the week 😁😁

P sent me a message tonight asking me how i felt as i slept on my coccyx yesterday while walking my dog and i had a lot of pain (but still i went to ski lol)
No news from J (atleast no answer to my message but he sent a « 👏 » regarding my instagram story so i don’t really understand what he is playing at…

Nevermind i am enjoying my holidays and time with my friend 🙂

Thanks again

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya
Thanks for your reply 🙂
I definitely have to think about these « limits » i can handle or not in this particular type of « relationship ». I am not too sure yet, i guess i have to see ir and when we meet again…
He sent me a message 2 days ago asking if i reached the ski so we discussed quickly but no news from him yesterday even if i sent him a message asking about his weekend and if he gets time to rest (as he had a pretry hard week).
On the other hand i had news from P speaking about our meeting when îll be back from holidays…it’s pretty weird to see him coming back afterall…
And of course B can’t stop liking my facebook posts even if he isn’t talking to me at all…lol
Nevermind i guess i should just focus on enjoying my holidays and not think too much about all of them 🙂
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Yes that’s what i am thinking aswell, as i said i can’t blame him in fact as i am still talking to the other guy and still hesitating to meet him or not (if he finally invites me the way i deserve it !) …
Maybe as you said i don’t really know either if i do like this guy or not or atleast if we can fit together.
I guess it’s not direspectful as of now as we only met once, and i just need to figure out at what point it would be…i guess it’s more about the frequency we meet and all…
Don’t want to have bad thought in fact, just needed to write it down 🙂
Thanks !!!

[Emilie S]

Yes sorry for the misunderstanding 😉
I found it nice, in fact everything he did during the evening and even the night and morning was nice 🙂 and that’s probably why i don’t really understand why he is still going on the app…(regarding my previous message)

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[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi,

Our message just crossed by 🙂

When i say “bothering me” it’s not exactly what i meant, it’s just that when i invite people at my place i am used to really invite them, so else i am cooking else i am paying for food (but i am most of the time cooking)…Inviting someone and being invited is “weird” (in a funny way).
But my reaction was at first you sure you want to pay ? and then as he said, please i owe you, you are inviting me at your place, so that’s the least i can do. I just laught and said ok and enjoyed the fact he paid 🙂 i found it nice and kind of “gentleman”.

[Emilie S]

Hi again

I had a hard day at work and even a hard week in fact so maybe it explain why i am little low today…Even if i’m on holidays and heading to ski tomorrow…But i just needed to share my thought mainly to put them out of my head and go back on my positive attitude…

I am just wondering if you think it’s normal that the guy i met last tuesday still seem to go on the app where we “met”, even if he is talking to me everyday and asking how was my day and all…Do you think he is just keeping his option until he knows what to do with me ? Or until i come back from holidays ? I find it weird…(He didn’t told me he was still going but i did connect myself as a friend of mine asked me how he was looking so i show her his profile and got to see he was online during the day. I’m not the jealous type of girl but it’s more about “respect”…Don’t know…

At the same time i can’t really blame him, i am still talking or atleast responding to the other guy, he sent me lots of messages this morning asking me what i was doing tonight, and when i said i was packing for my holidays he said oh great when are you coming back, and said ok let’s meet the day you come back…I found him weird aswell lol

3 guys from my past also showed up these last 2 days..Don’t know what happen with me but they all wanted to see me and all… I told 2 of them i met someone just to stop them from contacting me again. And didn’t tell the last one even if i didn’t say i wanted to meet him…

Am i crazy or what ???

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi

Just one thing i am not sure to understand correctly about the noticing. You think that ordering food for me isn’t a good thing ? It’s not that he decided what i was supposed to eat on the contrary he was asking what i liked and ordered mainly what i suggested. The fact he wanted to pay for the food was more for me to enjoy the evening instead of spending time cooking and also because he wanted to invite me as i invited him at my place.

But yes for the « join me » things it’s been the 2nd time he said it like that…

Thanks again

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya,

Thanks for your answer.

In fact i met another guy on tuesday evening. A guy i was talking to since saturday and who was calling me for hours in the evening to discuss and sending message during daytime to get to know each other or just discuss of futil stuff. As we were discussing a lot and he knew i was going on holidays this saturday he asked if we could meet before to ensure we were not just “idealizing” our discussion and all. I told him it was complicated due to the snow, so he proposed to come by (and brave the snow for me) my place for a sushi / netflix evening. We had a great evening, talking, sharing, laughing, eating and watching a movie (in fact we felt asleep in front of the movie). He slept at my place and we cuddled, he said he could stay like that for ever. But we both needed to work lol so he finally left, asking me when i was coming back from holidays and asking me if we will still exchange messages until then.
Seems to be a nice guy, but i don’t want to rush to quick in a “relationship mood” even if it’s what i want just to ensure i am taking the time to continue getting to know him and ensure he fills my checking list. Atleast he is really nice and i liked the fact he brave the snow for me, he also ordered food for me even if we were at my place (which made me a little uncomfortable but i remembered not to block his hero instinct), he told me not to move and that he will take care of the dust and all…Found it cute in a way.

At the same time P is still talking to me but still not making move to meet…and no news at all from the cousin so nevermind 🙂

I’ll keep you posted !

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi

Thanks again for your answer 🙂
And yes i think he needs to invite me in a proper way. Let see ! 🙂
Thing is that it’s snowing again in Paris so it makes it difficult to drive by for me…-_-” but apart from that i just don’t want to accept to “join him” on a last minute call (i could if it was about the pizza thing or a drink atleast).
Emilie

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