[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi

No i am meeting him tomorrow (saturday afternoon) 😉 so yes your answer came on time ! I’ll let him drive the thing in that case 🙂

Thanks !

Em

[Emilie S]

Hello ladies

I am back 🙂 in fact i came back last monday evening but i have been running since them…back to work, pole dance class, fitness, cleaning house…lol i guess i am more exhausted than before my holidays 🤣🤣🤣
So just to give you some updates. We spoke over messages everyday during my holidays and his small ones, sharing about our day mainly and what we were doing or visiting. I felt that he was more flirting with me while i wasn’t there. Like we were talking about « french pancakes » (i had a lot during holidays lol ans he loves that) and i was telling him that we were getting tanned all day long with my friend on the beach but i said that « we layed down like french pancakes all day long » (in french you can use this expression not sure in english) so he was like i am gonna visualise you as a french pancakes but that’s ok i love that and i’d love to eat you. And he also sent some emoji 😙👅 and i asked the meaning about them and he was like « it’s a french kiss » so i replied with french song lyrics which are saying that it’s just words and promise lol and he was like noooo i want to do it ans taste you. I can’t wait to see you while you’re back…so let see, we are meeting tomorrow for a movie but only that becauE he has a lunch with his mom just before and his nephew birthday just after 😅😅
Let see if he makes a move or not, maybe i should initiate it id i feel he is afraid to go for it…
Will keep you updated 🙂
Have a good day
Em

[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya
Thanks for your message 🙂
Yes i guess i am more relaxed about the « future » that i used to be. More living the moment which feels good 🙂
Have a good day !
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hahaha
Yes i might but i am not wearing that much jeans because i have issues finding a good fit for me…my butt and my thighs are « big » but my waist is small and in addition i am pretty « arched » so most of the time it’s not fitting well on me 😅😅😅i mean i do have some but i am most of the time wearing dresses and skirts lol
But i saw that butt was more attractive for men than boobs because i don’t have much of them and it never has been an issue for them (it used to be for me).

To come back to the main subject lol
I found him cute even if i would say that physically he is « not my type » by that i mean i prefer tall guys but he is not that much. But for once it doesn’t seem to bother me more than that (i used to stop meeting guys that were not tall because i wasn’t having sexual attraction just for that lool). But i guess that his personality is making me forget this little thing. I do like to talk with him, i am having good fun all the time. He likes to travel as i do, he loves food and movies lol i do like the fact that he has Positive mind spirit which feel really Good. He does sports which is important for me lol so i would say it’s more emotional connexion 🙂
Have a good day
Emilie

[Emilie S]

I would say both…i do have a good genetic in general about muscle and i am doing a lot of sports which involved a lot of exercises for legs and butt lol
Even my osteopath told me that I had a « « « black ass » when I hurt my tailbone. He was telling me “relaxe the gluteal muscles it is not possible that it is like that”

And yes let see what’s happening next with him 🙂

And yes it was a lonnnng drive i was pretty exhausted after ! And i had so much pain everywhere in my muscles 😅😅
Today i am better but still tired lol
Gonna rest a lot during next days 😁😁

Emilie

[Emilie S]

🤣🤣🤣 yes apparently i do have an amazing butt 😉 my ex always gave me nicknames linked to my butt…and most of my male friend speak about it aswell…even my female friend are jealous lool so i guess yes i do have a great butt 🍑🍑🍑

I do like the fact he is taking his time and i find it really respectful in addition of this impulse control thing 🙂

I teased him tonight while we were discussing because he asked if i liked japanese food an i replied yes with a 🤤 emoji and he replied that i would be really sexy with this face…i replied that i was sad to know i wasn’t sexy the rest of the time (it was a joke of course) and he was like i never said that and i said yeah maybe but it seems i al not sexy enough to have a hug. So he replied that he would catch up on that and in addition he found that i had pretty nice feet lol

I guess we can now play a little more lol

Thanks for my holidays i am finally there after 7 hours drive i am exhausted !!! I am gonna sleep well tonight 😴😴

Thanks for your message !!

Have a great weekend !

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi,
Haha good to know 😉 i can see that he is attracted the way he looks at me but clearly he is shy lol
We met today again for movie but nothing happened again lol
Let see when i will be back from holidays we already plan another movie and an exhibition 🙂
Atleast it feels good to have fun like that without feeling like someone is just playing with me for my butt lol
Have a good day
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Yes for sure, as i said no pressure 🙂

Hmm for the flirting i don’t really know to be honest. As he isn’t the usual kind of guy it is more complicated to know if he is responsive or not. I mean few days ago i have been to a lingerie shop. Don’t really remember how we came to talk about it but yes he was curious about my purchases. And it happens that i had to go back to this same shop because i had a size issue so we discussed about it again and he asked again about my purchase for an « investigation »…but appart from that and all the kisses/hugs emoticones he can send to me, we are not flirting as much as i used to do. Of course on this lingerie discussion he was like show me what you bought i can help you out decide if it’s looking good or not and all so yes playing a little but not much. When it was really hot in Paris he was telling that he had A/C integrated in his jean and that i could verify by myself…it’s really small thing and not all the time.
There is a chemistry but not as sexual as i used to have. Don’t know if it’s clear lol
Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya,

Thanks for your message 😉
It is nice yes but at the same time i am afraid of myself « friendzoning him » if it takes too much time before « the kiss » lol (i mean i don’t want to wait 6 months before it happens…lol) i might think as a guy on this one looool
For now i am still ok for the wait no pressure neither expectation and still discovering if he checks the criteria list 🙂
I’ll let you know for sure
But as i said ill be on holidays until the 28th so not sure anything will happen until then lol
You will have to be patient as much as i am 🤣🤣

[Emilie S]

Yes it does feel good to be back on track 🙂 i even started to practice yoga again ! And i have to admit that it’s really good once the practice is done i feel really relax all over the body which is soooo good as i am doing lots of fitness and i am having some aches after as i have started to train with dumbbells and that’s totally new lol

For this guy yes it’s feel good to find someone different 🙂 to be honest it didn’t came in my mind after first and second date that something was wrong with me as he didn’t try to even kiss but i was thinking he would give a try after the 3rd one lol i am not feeling something is wrong with me but more wondering if he is looking for relationship or friendship.
As i have the feeling he is shy i am still confident about this situation, i mean about myself. I mean he wouldn’t see me that much and making himself available if not a minimum , he wouldn’t want to invite me everytime so i am ok with taking time. Just wondering if he is waiting something from my side or not that’s it lol
Let see what happen on the 4th date 😉 lol
Have a good day !!

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi
Doing good thanks and you ?
Yes the temperature got down and it’s better now 🙂
I am back on track with my sports and pole classes and work ! But i had a « hard time » struggling with bad cold since i came back from NYC lol i am finally doing good now !
I met a guy i have been talking to on an app before going to NYC. We met 3 times and went everytime for movies and dinner. He is really nice and seems to be pretty respectful. Nothing happen between us not even a kiss lol
But we take the time to get to know each other. Just yesterday he told me something « weird » as he isn’t seeing himself getting old 😱 also he has some plan of moving out from Paris in 2020 but he loves Paris so…don’t really know what to think yet lol He told me he doesn’t like to plan much and prefere to « live the moment ».
Let see what’s happen next ! I can see he is making himself available to meet everytime even if i am most of the time the one initiating the meeting and he is always replying « i was planning to propose to meet ». For now We are enjoying our time together and the moment, we are having good fun, discussing and all… he is flirting by message but not face to face. I think he is a bit shy lol
So he is really different from all guys i used to date…
I am going on holidays next friday for 10 days in south of France and he is gonna go aswell for few days but in his family. Don’t know if we will meet before or not.

Good to know for the tip! I will see next time i go there lol

Have a good day !

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi

Yes the heat was pretty intense in Paris and we don’t have as much AC as in USA so it was a bit complicated to handle but today it’s raining so it’s breathable again ! I mainly worked from home since iwas back but i was really feeling low lol

For the food yes you can definitely find good stuff but it was pretty expensive lol otherwise it was mainly junk food and my stomach isn’t much used to it !! But it’s ok now 😅
For the tip yes i don’t like the fact that it’s mandatory even if you are not happy with the service…but that’s the way it works there so no choice…lol

Have a good day 🙂

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hi Heidi ☺️

I just came back from NYC ! It was really a great trip ! I spent so much time walking around even with the heat waves (that i am also facing in Paris since i came back 🥵).
I really liked the city and didn’t feel as oppressed as i would have think by the buildings and people. I really enjoyed visiting there even if i didn’t Get time to do everything i wanted to…but i will come back 🙂
As a sum up, i did a lot of rooftop (in the evening), i have seen whales 😍, i have been to brooklyn and i of course been on the bridge, i have been to soho, chinatown, little italy, greenwhich village, chealsey, the highline, the vessel, and the flatiron building which was on the way to my work, lower manhattan aswell and my hotel was close to the empire state building so i have seen it lol (but didn’t went up), i have seen 2 broadway’s show (sososo amazing !!!), i have been to jersey city, i did a cruise and saw ellis island and the statue of liberty, my second hotel was close to times square and rockefeller center so i have seen it aswell but didn’t went up neither, and i have been to center park and walked almost all around it…i think i might have forgot stuff in this list lol but that was mainly my last days ! Oh and i faced 2 thunderstorm and i was out for one of them and supposed to fly back to Paris during the second one lol
Only thing i was not really happy with was the food (i am definitely french lol) and the way we have to add taxes and services cost above all prices which is a bit of a nightmare everytime…lol
And for your last question, no new stories as of now if we are speaking about relationship ones lol i would have let you know about this for sure 😉

Have a good day !!

Emilie

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[Emilie S]

Hi Kanya,

Wanted to read the “Calling in the one” you suggested but I am not able to find it…Would you have the link ?

Thanks 🙂

Emilie

[Emilie S]

Hahah yes it’s better like that 😉
I don’t remember if she said something or not to be honest…So I might haven’t noticed at all lol
I’m meeting her this Sunday it’s her birthday 80 years old…I’ll see if she is saying something or not and will try to remember lol but I don’t really care…

Emilie

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