Well umm he said now he overcame his greatest fear which was me leaving. I unlocked some deep seated abandonment issues. But it is not no longer the same.
I think what keeps me stuck is the not wanting be villain again complex. I truly don’t want to be that all over again. I need closure and would hope he has the courage to say it’s over that he no longer wants this marriage. But he just wont. Instead of is whatever this is. 🙁