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We have been dating for a year and moved together for 6 months. I got upset as he is obviously in a lot of pain but when I ask what is happening he says “nothing baby, I’m fine”. However, under very stressful scenarios, he breaks down and cry. I only hug him and hold him but I failed to get him to talk more. So that’s why I told him he needed professional help and maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship. He is seeing a therapist but I doubt she any good. Said something once that he being in a relationship with someone 20 yeas younger is like incest and the only one not realising it is him. Very unprofessional but at the same time, he was with this therapist for over 4 years, so it’s hard to change for him. I want to try again but not sure if we should remain in contact by chat during this time. What would be better for the relationship? I can calm him pretty well when he has a breakdown, but maybe he needs to feel what is like to be apart from me too. I don’t know. Thank you for your help

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