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I’ve been ok. I’m trying to live my life and be surrounded by my close friends and keeping busy. He will text me every other day or send me a TikTok of dogs like he use to do. I don’t want to be his friend, I don’t know what I want from him anymore. Don’t even know if I should waste my time or be hopeful at all anymore. I’m going to see him on Friday to give him our dog so he can take care of her while I go out of town with friends and family. I changed jobs and I wanted to tell him but I told him today when he contacted and asked me. I keep reading about the no contact thing and when I tried it I don’t think it worked. I don’t know what to do anymore
Barely. He mostly asked about the dog. Which hurts me because we got her together but she lives with me. On Sunday I went to pick her up and her things and came in not angry and told
Him thank you for everything and said goodbye. Then he wrote me on Tuesday and I didn’t reply that day because I was feeling better and trying to move on since he doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore. Then he got rid of his fb page the next day and removed himself from some chats we were in with my cousins and it hurt me. Then I wrote him saying she was good and sleeping and he replied ok. That was the last time we spoke. I feel like nothing I do is right anymore and I think he’s really not coming backI am seeing a therapist to work on this and figure out why I’m doing this. It could be steming from my mother and how she treats me. I just don’t know if he will give us another chance since I’ve been doing this for some time now and he held it in for so long and he said he’s been unhappy for Sometime now. I want him back in my life he’s been the best man I’ve ever had in my life
We broke up during the pandemic for two weeks because we put an application for a place to live and they never called us even till this day, and I told him it’s his fault that we don’t have a place because he’s picky. I said that out of anger and frustration because everyone else I knew was buying a house during the pandemic and all I wanted was to move in with him. But I also didn’t have enough money saved up also so it wasn’t right. He brought it to my attention when we broke up this last time. I didn’t realize I was doing that so much and he would joke about it instead of talking To me seriously about it. He would say well you have to blame somebody but I was blaming him for things that had nothing to do with him
