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  • Suda S
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    Thank you for your response.
    I agree with you. We have a perfect dinner on Saturday night. However, some conversations are triggered me. I have actually stopped initiating text since then. He texted me first couple of times and that’s all. We haven’t talked for a day already. He got the NET game ticket for us today. If he doesn’t text me, I won’t text him as well. I will consider the plan is canceled. And If he has gone, I will let him go.

    Suda S
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    Hi Spyce!

    Thank you so much for your response. I highly appreciate your advice. I totally agree with you. However, I am here because of the book that I found interesting. I would like to try a new thing by how to make the guy change and chase you instead.
    I said I have never been a success in a relationship because my big problems are I am too attached and chasing the guy. So, I would like to give this idea a try, the secrete obsession. Besides, I always give up right away and never give myself to try different ways.

    I can give this relationship up easily. However, my point is I want to change my situation.

    To answer your question. I grow up in a family where my mom and dad were together but did not get along well.

    In addition, the feedback to 100% of the posts I read here is to move on.
    I just don’t want it to end that way in my situation. I want to change my behavior and let him chase me instead and provide me with what I want.

    He is not great. He gives me attention when I ask for it. He always text back, pick up the call, bring me out when I ask. I just need the situation that he is more into me and taking care of me without my request.

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