Hi Spyce!
Thank you so much for your response. I highly appreciate your advice. I totally agree with you. However, I am here because of the book that I found interesting. I would like to try a new thing by how to make the guy change and chase you instead.
I said I have never been a success in a relationship because my big problems are I am too attached and chasing the guy. So, I would like to give this idea a try, the secrete obsession. Besides, I always give up right away and never give myself to try different ways.
I can give this relationship up easily. However, my point is I want to change my situation.
To answer your question. I grow up in a family where my mom and dad were together but did not get along well.
In addition, the feedback to 100% of the posts I read here is to move on.
I just don’t want it to end that way in my situation. I want to change my behavior and let him chase me instead and provide me with what I want.
He is not great. He gives me attention when I ask for it. He always text back, pick up the call, bring me out when I ask. I just need the situation that he is more into me and taking care of me without my request.