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Yes I could really use the help because I want him to actually want to open up to me about everything that’s going on
I mean at one point a few days after the breakup he said he was giving up because of school and work so i thought it might have to do with the fact he is stressed out from all of it and he might think he can’t give me what I want at the moment. I want to ask for a meet up because like it was mentioned before texting will only get me so far but I don’t want him to completely shut me out if I were to ask
He never really elaborated when we first broke up, when we talking about why he was feeling that way he said he didn’t know. As far as goals I’m not sure if they were common. We had talked about our future and it seemed like we wanted the same things for our career choices as well as our relationship. As far as fun and communication we were kind of opposites in some aspects but let’s say if it was something the other wanted to do or try fun wise we’d both be up for it and as for communication I was at least very open about everything with him. If something was bothering me I’d tell him about it then we’d both try to find a solution to whatever was going on. For him though yes he would communicate with me about things that bothered him or situations that were going on but he also would keep things from me if he felt like it would hurt me
We are both in our early 20s. He never really says that he stopped having feelings for me just that he doesn’t feel a connection. The first time this happened we were about 6 months into our relationship and after about 2-3 months we got back together due to still talking to each other and still being around each other. I can always tell that he’s excited to be with me because he’ll be outwardly affectionate every time we are together. I can never really tell when it happens other than the long response times. When we were together he would reply instantly so it made me think that something was up. As for our sexual connection, it was really good we were both very open with each other about the things we liked and didn’t and we were intimate pretty frequently.
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There wasn’t anything that was out of the ordinary in last 3-6 months of our relationship we were actually planning to go on a trip and at the time he seemed excited to go on it. He was still highly affectionate, texted me he loved me everyday, the works. We were hanging out when we could because we are both in school and working so we were both always busy. Maybe that could have been a factor because when we first started dating we were together all the time. But as far as how many conversations we are having via text, we have basically been texting everyday since after no contact I want to meet up with him so we can talk in person because that’s normally when we have the best conversations and I can tell how he is actually feeling because I can see him but I’m unsure of two things when it comes to asking for a meet up: is it’s too soon and will he be open to meeting up and actually talking with meIn addition: this isn’t our first breakup it’s our second one and he said the same thing as I don’t feel the same anymore. I can’t use the same things I would before because he knows me way better now than the first time this happened. I want to try to rebuild the connection he said we lost a little through text before transition to a talking in person but I also have trouble making conversations interactive to get a good response.
