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  • in reply to: After 90 days this guy ghosted me. #30640
    Jimeko D
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    Thanks it does make a lot of sense and if he is this way really we would never work. I just hate it because he showed major potential. I have been told by the girlfriend he will contact me again he just trying to let the drama die. I have not heard that from him so I don’t believe it. Especially cause I know he doesn’t talk to her and wants me to stop talking to her. He said she brings negative energy.

    in reply to: After 90 days this guy ghosted me. #30635
    Jimeko D
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    Thanks and I do take responsibility for my part but I feel like I need to tell the whole story. We met in March by my friend who is the girlfriend of my boyfriend friend. Well after she connected us she decided she didn’t want us talking and kept coming to me with stuff he saying to his friend so we decided to stop telling them things and we were good until one day I was having an issue with my teenage son and my boyfriend went to his friend for advice and I told him he shouldn’t have done that but I was so happy it worked. I didn’t really care I was just happy my son wasn’t talking about suicide anymore. Then when I was with her I heard her boyfriend say I shouldn’t bring stuff like that to him cause he not equipped for that and since I was only venting to my boyfriend I was not expecting this outcome. I only told him what his friend said so he knew how he felt and to say I was right he shouldn’t have went to him and to see if he felt that way so I would know not to talk to him about issues with the kids. I was not being confrontational at all but I need to know if he couldn’t deal with that especially since we had been discussing opening a youth mentoring program together.

    in reply to: After 90 days this guy ghosted me. #30632
    Jimeko D
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    This was my first text of apology when I realized he was not talking to me. I apologize I really thought I was looking out for you and just venting to you but I guess you didn’t see it that way and again I apologize. However if you don’t want to talk to me anymore just tell me but don’t let me just sit here making assumptions. U said I would never have to wonder where I stood with you please keep your word. That way I can move on with my life if I need to. It hurts because my feelings for you were truly genuine. As much as I hate confrontation I would never start any mess. I still love you 😍 ❤ 😘 💕

    in reply to: After 90 days this guy ghosted me. #30631
    Jimeko D
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    He did just disappear and never said anything about ending it nor does he reply. My first apology I said I apologize and I explained that I thought I was looking out for him and I wouldn’t do it again.

    in reply to: After 90 days this guy ghosted me. #30628
    Jimeko D
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    Yes you are correct I met him through the other couple but the female of the other couple got jealous and started a lot of drama. I did apologize but it’s been two weeks since I heard from him. I can definitely stop gossiping and disconnect from the other couple. The guy in the other couple is his friend and business partner. I told him what I heard the business partner saying about him. I thought I was helping him by letting him know to be careful. I’m so unhappy with the situation and can’t seem to get his attention.

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