[Desiree G]

Hi Spyce
Thanks for responding! Let me start by saying that this guy was in love with me back in high school and I would never give him a chance because we were such good friends that I never wanted to destroy our friendship. I always thought that if we dated and it didn’t work out our friendship would over. Now 25 years later here we are….I ended up dating an older guy and getting pregnant and moving to another town wit him and we didn’t speak for about 15 years until 2010. He also ended up having 3 children during this time period. We reconnected on Facebook in 2010 and have been popping into each others life ever since. There were a few times I thought we were gonna get together but he didn’t even know that’s what I wanted but this time he knows and he wants it too.
Where we are in life…..Neither one of us ever married. We both have been in long term relationships that just didn’t work out. Our connection is just like it was 25 years ago. We get along great and laugh and talk for hours finishing each others sentences. As I said in my first message I just feel as though sometimes he gets distant and the texts become less. He did open up to me the other night and admit that he’s afraid that I’m gonna break his heart again, I tried to reassure him that I’m not gonna go that. I’m older and know what I want in life. How can I get him to see this? He has told me several times “loved you once love you still always have and always will”. I just want to be able to connect with him and really make him see that I’m not going anywhere nor am I going to break his heart.
Please give me some advice…..

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