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  • in reply to: Ex boyfriend situation #19712
    Gosia
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    Thanks. That makes sense. I’ll work on that

    in reply to: Ex boyfriend situation #19660
    Gosia
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    Hi. I will try that. But should I initiate outings more or wait for him to? And should I just send him random texts? I used to not do that too often. Or ever
    He is MIA again. Like I said going on vacation so he’s busy. I do feel like he reaches out when he’s bored. And for now try to not get intiamte right? When we do hang out?
    I will avoid serious talks but somehow I want to know what his long term plan is. How do I subtly ask what he wants from me? I need to know so I can move on it he’s not on the same page. I am at a point where I want to get married and have a family.

    in reply to: Ex boyfriend situation #19624
    Gosia
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    Thank you for your reply
    I don’t think we are dating. It’s not like it used to be before. Again he was not the greatest boyfriend but I am learning a lot I have been doing wrong. I am open to hanging out with his friends but it was all the time. We never had time alone. Now it’s a bit different because some of his longtime friends are just not that available. But when we are out not he wants his friends to know we’re together and wants to send them our picture …?
    He usually initiates but we don’t see each other often. There are times he texts more and then he fades out. He always replies to my texts right away. For now
    When we do go out and we go to our favorite place he says he always goes with me everyone always says what a great couple we are. I say we are not a couple. Maybe that wrong… I think I can be a little cold and I now see how I should compinent him more
    He is traveling now. He sort of asked me but booked without really telling me dates so I could not go. Maybe if I really wanted to I could but I did not feel like he really asked
    He did not do anything for me for Vday. I texted him that with something else and he wished me right away. His birthday is coming. He will be away. I will wish him happy birthday. Should I get him something?
    He tends to be very sensitive I noticed so I know I can’t go hard on him
    And yes. I feel like we are friends with benefits now
    So confused ….

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