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Hi Heidi,
Thank you for responding! Yes it does feel yucky and very confusing.
This friendship is not long distance by any means. In fact, he’s in the next county over from me. He prefers connecting through Facebook Messenger like a lot of people do. I have a lot of friends who use that same medium..many of whom are women.
We are in the same political party which means we do sort of have to see each other at meetings once a month..although I was not at last month’s meeting nor was he since he was out of town on business. He’s in the National Guard where he has to train the first weekend of each month and then for 2 weeks once a year. I wasn’t able to attend last month’s meeting for other reasons.
We will be at the next one tomorrow,so I do know he’s okay. In fact, he’s always posting on Facebook as many people do.
I have no idea how I will react tomorrow. I do want to attend because I want to hear another member talk about her involvement
with an upcoming event and the fact I wasn’t at last month’s meeting.Maria
I have a question. I’ve been friends with a guy for a several months. We are friends, we’ve never dated. This may sound silly but when I have messaged him about something on FB messenger he would usually answer. He doesn’t pay attention to e-mails…so he uses messenger.
Lately he has been distant and barely answers me. He wont even respond to anything I post, yes, I know that may seem silly.
He usually has before but now he won’t. To me it seems as if he’s suddenly turned off a switch and has chosen not to respond to me. I’m very confused.
I wrote an e-mail to him with the intention of sending it, but I didn’t. I just want an explanation as to why he’s not responding
and if I’ve said or done something wrong. I felt better after writing that e-mail but not hitting the send button.
It’s very confusing. I wouldn’t be so confused if we didn’t talk much but we did. Our conversations weren’t serious in nature
or discussing relationships.
It doesn’t make any sense to me!Can you help?
Thank you!
Maria
