This month I\u2019ve got a great book for those of you who feel like you\u2019re waiting around for your man to make a move. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether you\u2019re ready for a first date, living together, marriage, or children, I can help you with several techniques that address these types of situations. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n First let\u2019s take a look at the world in general. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Since the beginning of time, men have held positions of power. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Only in the past 100 or so years have women begun to work, hold positions of power, live on their own, even have children on their own. Wow! Girl power is alive and well.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n However, there\u2019s an area where tradition and power still have a toehold \u2013 and that is in relationships. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Statistics show that only 6% of women are willing to ask out a man. That means a whopping 96% wait to be asked out! That\u2019s crazy, right? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Since 83% of men prefer to ask the woman out and only 16% are okay with the woman asking that makes the situation seem almost hopeless or about as feasible as winning the lottery.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n But before you decide to give up let\u2019s look at a few ways women can take initiative and gain some power right now:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Human beings have two problem solving systems \u2013 the head and the gut. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n The head makes decisions using deliberate, rational, rule-based thinking whereas the gut is more automatic making fast, instinctive decisions. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n The gut is impervious to logic so it\u2019s extremely difficult to convince a man\u2019s gut that moving in together or marrying you is the right thing to do.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n This book gives you approaches to nudge your relationship in the right direction and using these approaches can also get the two of you communicating positively, which is the most important aspect of any successful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n 5 Approaches You Can Use to Nudge Your Relationship in the Right Direction<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n Stop Waiting Around for Him to Make a Move \u2013 Take the Lead with Nudge Theory, Proceptive Behaviors and Other Techniques <\/i><\/b>will give you even more insight on how to get him (and you) to think differently about building a life together.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n This book will also help you define what type of relationship you need to be happiest. Are you okay with living together but not getting married? Would you be happy with marriage but not having children? This is your life not a dress rehearsal. Let\u2019s get to it right now!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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