{"id":17471,"date":"2018-11-14T00:56:04","date_gmt":"2018-11-14T00:56:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/?page_id=17471"},"modified":"2024-01-25T03:43:18","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T03:43:18","slug":"learn-more","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/library\/irresistible-insight-63\/learn-more\/","title":{"rendered":"Learn More"},"content":{"rendered":"<!-- wp:heading {\"align\":\"center\"} -->\n<h2><b>Cracking the First Date Code<\/b><\/h2>\n<!-- \/wp:heading -->\n\n<!-- wp:heading {\"align\":\"center\"} -->\n<h2><b>How to Successfully Take Your Online Chemistry Offline<\/b><\/h2>\n<!-- \/wp:heading -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi everyone, it\u2019s Amy.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re a fan of online dating, you\u2019re going to want to read this book! <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve been chatting online with a guy and you think you may have chemistry offline too, read this book first. Seriously, you\u2019ll thank me.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online dating is a necessary evil these days. Everyone is so incredibly busy and hardly has time to take care of necessities much less hang out hoping to meet Mr. Right. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But even online you have to spend a good deal of time setting up your dating account, marketing yourself, and going out on dates only to find the attraction you thought you had does not translate into the real world. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though he looks good on paper, and you\u2019ve talked on the phone or by text or email, there can still be little attraction once you meet face to face.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can take all the time you\u2019d spend chatting him up and use it to prepare for the first date instead, you can increase your odds tremendously! <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is that the online world bears very little resemblance to the real world. In the virtual world you can control everything.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about your profile photo. Is it recent? Did you choose it out of a million others that did not get your good side? Will you look the same in person?<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Face to face meetings are more complex because a person\u2019s profile is not that person. It\u2019s only the best part of that person decided by them. If his ex-wife wrote the profile it would be another story altogether.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This book goes into facts you need to know to get the most out of that first date. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few things to keep in mind are:<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few things to keep in mind are:<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:list -->\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online you\u2019re using your mind to determine if the two of you are compatible, but sadly your brain is not in charge of attraction. Your logic is too slow.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your gut (or subconscious) is what needs the face-to-face time to determine attraction.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical attraction is body over mind, not the other way around.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n<!-- \/wp:list -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now most of us are savvy enough to know that scammers are all over the internet, so if a guy sounds too good to be true he probably is. So be safe and smart.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have an email address that you use for the dating site only and be sure to meet during the day if possible in a place where there are a lot of other people.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><b>5 Things You Can Do to Make Your First Date Really Count<\/b><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:list {\"ordered\":true} -->\n<ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t even think about falling in love before you meet in person.<\/span><\/li><li>Meet as soon as possible \u2013 after 3 or 4 messages at the most \u2013 this way if there\u2019s no chemistry you haven\u2019t wasted a lot of time for you or him.<\/li><li>Make your focus on chemistry not conversation. Like the Billy Joel lyric, \u201cI don\u2019t want clever conversation. I never want to work that hard.\u201d<\/li><li>Share a secret, nothing TOO personal. You don\u2019t want to send him running in the opposite direction, but a little self-disclosure never hurt anyone.<\/li><li>The first date should be 30 minutes only. No longer. Leave your audience of one wanting more! You\u2019re trying to determine if you have chemistry, not taking a trip together. Plus, you\u2019ll know long before the 30 minutes is up.<\/li><\/ol>\n<!-- \/wp:list -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><b><i>Cracking the First Date Code <\/i><\/b><b><i>- <\/i><\/b><b><i>How to Successfully Take Your Online Chemistry Offline <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">provides even more insight on how to use your free time more wisely when looking for someone who \u201ccompletes\u201d you. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s so disheartening to put tons of time and effort into what you think could be a great relationship only to find out there\u2019s no chemistry. This book will help you avoid needlessly wasted time and heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:image {\"align\":\"center\",\"id\":17483,\"linkDestination\":\"custom\"} -->\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/library\/irresistible-insight-63\/learn-more\/guarantee-1-1\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-17483\"><img src=\"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/guarantee-1-1-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17483\"\/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n<!-- \/wp:image -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sounds pretty good, right?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then click the button below to gain access to <\/span><b><i>Cracking the First Date Code <\/i><\/b><b><i>- <\/i><\/b><b><i>How to Successfully Take Your Online Chemistry Offline<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> right now!<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:html -->\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><a class=\"purchase_link\" href=\"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/irresistible-insights-bonus\/?id=63\"><img width=\"539\" height=\"196\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beirresistible.com\/letter\/12\/07.png\" alt=\"Cracking the First Date Code\"><\/a><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:html -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cracking the First Date Code How to Successfully Take Your Online Chemistry Offline Hi everyone, it\u2019s Amy. 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