Hi there, it\u2019s Amy coming at you with a new e-book.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n This book addresses the trials and tribulations of believing you\u2019ve finally found \u201cthe one\u201d only to find out that he\/she has children. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n And not just any children mind you, but the kind of children who don\u2019t want anyone taking their parent\u2019s attention, trying to tell them what to do, or trying to be their new parent. \u201cYou\u2019re not my mom!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n The fact that you\u2019re reading this right now tells me you\u2019re looking for answers or being proactive in your relationship. Kudos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Certainly not all stepfamilies struggle, but many do. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n A difficult ex can make yours and your spouse\u2019s lives miserable or children may resent a new person in a position of power over their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n In all families with children it has been found that happiness diminishes after the birth of the first child and then increases after the last child leaves.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n I say this only to point out that having children, even when they are your own, is a blessing while the process of growing into an adult is a stressful one for all involved.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n The Most Important Rule <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re dating a person who has children, the best thing you can do in the beginning is focus on the romantic relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Problems happen when a couple puts the needs of the children before their own.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, I know that sounds a bit selfish, however being a child of divorce, the fact that the parent and new spouse have a healthy, happy, and romantic love life creates a good example for the children. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n A strong relationship also builds a firm foundation on which to have a family. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Children thrive when they live in a loving home with consistent leadership and clear<\/span> boundaries and rules.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n 5 Things You Can Do Right Now<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you find yourself in a stepparent role in which you have become the \u201cbad guy\u201d take a step back and think about these 5 things:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n From Stephell to Stepheaven<\/i><\/b> - <\/i><\/b>Relationship-Saving Advice for Stepparents<\/i><\/b> provides even more insightful ways to have a healthy, loving relationship with a parent who has children. Once that relationship is solid, you can work on getting to know the children and being held in a position of respect in their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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