{"id":15890,"date":"2018-08-14T02:14:49","date_gmt":"2018-08-14T02:14:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/?page_id=15890"},"modified":"2024-01-25T03:44:57","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T03:44:57","slug":"learn-more","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/library\/irresistible-insight-60\/learn-more\/","title":{"rendered":"Learn More"},"content":{"rendered":"<!-- wp:heading {\"level\":1,\"align\":\"center\"} -->\n<h1><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3 Surprising Ways Your Past&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Could Wreck Your Love Life<\/span><\/h1>\n<!-- \/wp:heading -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi there, it\u2019s Amy again!<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve got an exciting new e-book for you this month and it\u2019s for everyone; whether you\u2019re single, in a relationship, or married.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself at the end of yet another relationship or are trying to find \u201cthe right one\u201d don\u2019t do <\/span><b>anything<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> until you\u2019ve read my new book.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><b>Your Subconscious<\/b><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The subconscious is a sneaky, underhanded villain. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can rob us of stellar relationships or keep a relationship from happening altogether with thoughts that:<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:list -->\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">turn a possible partner away from you<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cause conflict with the other person<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">discourage you from thinking you deserve happiness<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n<!-- \/wp:list -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you continue in this way, your subconscious will keep interfering in your life most of the time without you even realizing it.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what are you supposed to do to change? How can you fight back against the negative thoughts and behavior patterns your subconscious is causing?<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, you can\u2019t change your past \u2013 but you can re-frame it.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><b>Start with a Growth Mindset<\/b><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve talked about Growth Mindset before. It\u2019s an important part of changing your life for the better. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Believe that you can learn from past relationships in order to get you ready for the right one.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this instance, Growth Mindset involves using your past for personal growth by learning to be a better person and partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who are able to move on after life\u2019s upheavals, including bad break-ups\/divorces, are those who don\u2019t take these situations personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe two people grew apart. That\u2019s no one\u2019s fault. <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In life you either grow or become stagnant and being stagnant is not good for anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are truly ready to <\/span><b>change your outlook<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on life, your past, and relationships, then this book is for you! <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I will ask you to take a hard look at yourself, your past, and be willing to override your current subconscious \u201cscript\u201d with positive responses instead of negative ones.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this book I cover:<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><b>Self awareness <\/b><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can you change automatic behaviors if you don\u2019t recognize them?<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:list -->\n<ul><li><b>Acceptance -&nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accept yourself just the way you are. You are enough and you deserve to give and receive love. <\/span><\/li><li><b>Forgiveness -&nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forgive yourself and others. Learn from your experiences and see how they can be the impetus for change.<\/span><\/li><li><b>New responses -&nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you get to this point you\u2019ll be able to create more positive conversational responses as well as learning new behavioral responses to old triggers.<\/span><\/li><li><b>Resilience -&nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eventually you\u2019ll be able to learn from hardships without letting them crush you. You\u2019ll be able to get through life\u2019s difficult times with less drama and more grace.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n<!-- \/wp:list -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Okay, if you\u2019re ready to get to work and move toward a more positive and effective life, let\u2019s do this! <\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Purchase my newest book <\/span><strong><i>3 Surprising Ways Your Past Could Wreck Your Love Life<\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> right now!<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:image {\"align\":\"center\"} -->\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img src=\"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/guarantee.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<!-- \/wp:image -->\n\n<!-- wp:html -->\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><a class=\"purchase_link\" href=\"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/irresistible-insights-bonus\/?id=60\"><img width=\"539\" height=\"196\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beirresistible.com\/letter\/12\/07.png\" alt=\"3 Surprising Ways Your Past Could Wreck Your Love Life\"><\/a><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:html -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questions? Call 1-800-755-4364 or contact Support.<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wishing you all the best,<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Amy Waterman and James Bauer<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>3 Surprising Ways Your Past&nbsp;Could Wreck Your Love Life Hi there, it\u2019s Amy again! I\u2019ve got an exciting new e-book for you this month and it\u2019s for everyone; whether you\u2019re single, in a relationship, or married. If you find yourself at the end of yet another relationship or are trying to find \u201cthe right one\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":363,"featured_media":0,"parent":15877,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-sales-letter-design.php","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-15890","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/15890","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/363"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15890"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/15890\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36913,"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/15890\/revisions\/36913"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/15877"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beirresistible.com\/members\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15890"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}