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Could it be he is just fine with his ex being an ex
If the ex is un-comfy with you, she may not be over him completely.A break right before your birthday, really? : How thoughtful of him, not!
What Men Want course prob would of frowned on pushing him for an answer and texting him.
Sounds like a cop-out saying he wasn’t planning to breakup with out, taking a break was his way of weaning you away.
At first he blew your self esteem saying you were problem ‘you needed to find yourself’ and ‘love yourself’
Now its him that needs to restart himself.
Sounds like you texted him was just convenient timing, doesn’t hurt him to keep you available ‘just in case’ I suspect.But I can’t talk, my relationships suck too, hence why I’m here too.
Maybe someone more qualified can give you better advice.With no disrespect to anyone here and I’m not saying these methods wont work. We are all here because we are looking for guidance, share the same goal and desire the same things. Please keep in mind these are just my feelings, I don’t expect anyone else to feel the same, I could be all wrong and I’m not trying to say these methods don’t work.
BUT
You did say “If I want to change I will….”
Me, change? Why, because there nothing is wrong with me and my feelings are not wrong because my feelings and desires are truly genuine, coming from my heart.
I have practiced feelings and emotions since I was that school girl on the playground, I was one the girls at the picnic table while the boys were working on the missions!
It should be about finding someone that loves me for who I am!
