[Vicki W]

Thanks for responding. It makes sense because his mother wasn’t a positive person in his childhood. He has been married a few times and divorced.. a red flag that I ignored. I was pretty sure he pulls away when he gets too close and he would say it’s because I was getting too close. We had 4 years together and the first couple were great. Then he started to sabotage it by getting upset with me over nothing. The fights started happening more often until he walked away and it seemed convenient, something he was working towards. He still says he’s not happy about the breakup and doesn’t want a relationship with anyone but I know he dates and I’m sure has sex probably as an ego boost, just like with me. I know he still cares, and still loved me when he ended it. It hurts less now than it did. I just have to be aware of my splits so I don’t fall back into his web.

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