[Misti F]

Our kids are grown adults, our youngest is 28, and my oldest is 37. We have 7 grandkids. Our son, who lives in our home, told him that if he continued doing what he was doing, he would disown him to his face. He said if he doesn’t want to be with me, that’s fine. He understands things happen, but he can get divorced and then move on with someone. He won’t allow him to cohort with someone while we are still married and consider him his father. And that he would not allow his kids in his dad’s life either. Our son was divorced and lives here and has a new outlook on marriage and how things are as they had infidelity issues in theirs. He is a firm believer if you are no longer happy in a marriage you either do something to fix it,or you tell them and leave. Then do the proper thing and get divorced before moving on with another. So, I think you might have a different view on your advice. It’s not like he’s a child or been brought into this. He sees how things were before our son passed away and how they were after. Considering my husband continues to say how miserable he was for so long before that time. My son told him that if he was so unhappy, he had everyone fooled. He didn’t change howmhe was with me at all until I found out about the affair. I threw him out he came back 9 days later and that’s when I became the “friend”.

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