[Anh D]

Hello Coach Spyce,

Thank you so much for following up on me, for your care, your feedbacks and guidance. I really appreciate you.

I would like to let you know that, after your last message, I have decided to move on and away from this connection. I have not heard anything from him after our last messages that I mentioned to you in my previous message to you.

Things have been going better, even though I still am caught up with emotions at times.

I agree with you in everything you said in the above message.

Thank you so much for all your help and support once again!

Best regards,

Ann

[Anh D]

Good evening Coach Spyce,

I would like to thank you for your detailed reply. I really appreciate your insights. I didn’t think about this connection the way you did. Thank you for opening my eyes to see the things that I didn’t see or refused to see.

You are absolutely right about everything you said and yes, I do prefer older men.

I don’t have much experience in dating. My ex was the only man I ever dated before we got married.
During my 2.5 years of separation, I have gone out with few men, but nothing serious.

This time around, I felt something special and he did check all my boxes. I felt happy and safe around him, we had a great time together, we had many things in common, our values seemed to align, we liked the same things, we shared the same interests, he seemed to be kind and caring.

I miss all the things he said to me, I miss the times we spent together, our hugs, our passionate kisses, the feeling of being cared for and loved (or that what I thought) by a man.

I am very blessed to have my friends and family who love me and care deeply about me. I am highly respected among my peers. I have two beautiful and successful adult children and my oldest son just got married few days ago. I am very well established in my career and financially well. I don’t need a man to provide for me, because I am more than capable of providing for myself. I just need a companion to share my life and my adventures with.
I am looking for someone who has to be better than me in all departments including looks, finance, education and intelligence. Please don’t take me wrong, I don’t mean to be arrogant, but I have dealt with all these issues in my failed marriage and I will not want to deal with these issues ever again. I think you understand what I am trying to say here.

Thank you so much for your time and advice.

Best regards,

Ann

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