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He tends to worry about things that I don’t look for in a man , he feels he doesn’t make enough money and can’t provide for us as a couple and he thinks money is everything which I disagree because when you are in relationship it’s about both of you together as one I have a career too and cost of living is quite high in most states he wants to give me a lavish lifestyle but I’m not that type of woman to judge a man based on there job and I understand this but how do I explain that to him that’s the problem why he doesn’t meet me in person
Heidi I know what your saying I know what your saying but I keep giving in because he has a confidence issue at first I thought he was catfishing me mostly he is attentive and makes me a priority for the most part and he feels bad about the way he is treating me but what if he is like me and not know the correct way to treat a woman ? Because I do things I thought was good things in treating a man and after reading so many of these articles I have no idea about men at all and what they respond to and he also tells me he is a only child and lost both his parents at 20 years old and no nothing about women he has gone to therapy and he is willing to make this relationship work but is there a way I can reverse this issue in him or is this a lost cause? Every relationship has problems and for the most part he treats well , has good job and when he is in wrong he admits to it he will take the time to chase me down for 3 months he chased me finally I gave in because he seems genuinely interested and wants to work thru this for a person to do all that work to get back it’s got be worth to give him another chance right?
Been in relationship an online dating for 15 months and everytime we’re suppose to meet in person he never shows or never calls to tell me he isn’t coming to meet me we both live in different states he buys a plane ticket shows me the plane ticket info he either starts to come to my state but at halfway point he changes his mind and takes another flight back home or he cancel the trip but doesn’t share that info with me it’s painful when he puts me through this he has done this 8 times he says he gets scared or anxiety I try to break up with him over it but he will find a way to contact me if I have blocked him by using his friends phones or google numbers right now he set up another date to meet next month honestly don’t think he will come so what do I do ?
