[Heidi W]

Hi,
Thank you for responding. My comments about living with people had to do with the difficulty of living with my best friend as roommates. That’s what led me to say that. As far as fighting, he only could message one day a week and I would at times get upset when he would talk to other people or do other activities, I truly wish I had been more respectful as he honestly did dedicate so much of his limited time to me. No, we did not see eachother at all during that time but were very close friends for a very long time before he left. He was there for me through some extremely traumatic life events including me going through some major health challenges that ended in hospitalization and he was there for me through my dads unexpected passing. Our emotional connection was strong and it’s something I felt was strengthened during our time apart (although looking back I’m not so sure).

I believe his comment about hurting him was in reference to me getting upset when he would do other things as well as some comments that I made about his family as I have some anxiety around them. I didn’t know that I was hurting him when I said these things and truly wish I could go back and fix it.
I mean the way in which he broke up with me and his lack of communication. I made a lot of mistakes in our relationship and wish that he had communicated to me before things got too late.

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