[Mary C]

Hi,

I went to the restaurant my ex and I both work at Saturday for his last shift. I saw him for his last bar shift and things were good. I read my book and let him come to me. I went in for his last serving shift and disaster struck. I’m hindsight, I shouldn’t have gone! I was fabricating a meeting. The manager told me he wasn’t allowed to be my server. I’m not sure if that’s true or if he wasn’t comfortable serving me. I can’t allow myself to overthink it. The manager humiliated me. Mind you, I work at this restaurant. It was my night off. I had worked my second job in the big city all day and wanted to curl up in a booth with a drink. I regret going in and I regret requesting him. The only way I know how to recover is to give him space (no texting or contact.) I did send a quick apology the day after with no reply. I feel AWFUL!! I hope you guys can give me some advice soon. I’m struggling very much.

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