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Hi Heidi
Thank you for your response.
Alot of what you have said makes so much sense. I went to see my therapist today and that helped to give me some more clarity too.
It is incredibly hard as I want to try and fix the situation as I am hurting. I want to reach out and talk to him to try and help him so that we can grow from this but as you say it is his journey. How he deals with this will be a learning curve as to wether we continue together. Thank you for the kind way you describe things. It has helped me.Kindest regards
Update: I have delved very deep into the pain I have been feeling the last 4 days. I have looked at what I need to do to grow from it.
He has said that he doesnt see it how I do and that he doesnt think I am to blame for any of this.
I am a real empath, always looking out for others needs and not my own. I really feel now that this is something I cannot help him with. He needs to look at why he is now feeling the way he is. It seems that when he is faced with stress he retreats. He has never been good at communicating, never knows what to say and is generally a very quiet person. He has just said he doesnt know and meeds more time. Any advice would be greatly received. Thank you.
