[Stephanie O]

I consider that both of us were thinking that it is too soon to make the big step of getting married, but he felt social pressure because of some of my friends that got married, besides all the other things happening in his life. We started to talk again like two days ago by text, but we haven’t talked anything about us, only how we’ve been, plans that we have for the coming future, and one or another joke. At this point, I just kept confirming that I would love to get back together with him, he is such a great man, we understand each other so well, I miss us, and I know that he still cares about me…

[Stephanie O]

We’ve been together for six months.
We don’t live together but used to spend every weekend together, from Friday until Sunday night.
After 3 weeks of giving us space, I talked to him because I was feeling so bad about the anxiety, he told me that he needed more time but for my own good, I couldn’t give him more time, so we decided to break up.
He was having issues with work, he is about to start studying for an MBA, and for some reason, he saw that he needed to make things more serious (marriage) with me, but I never put that on his mind, I’m not someone that has dreamed about getting married, and I actually consider that is too soon to make that step.
And no, this is the first time that happened.

Thank you for your help!

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