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The thing is we were intimate and happy weeks leading up to when he told me he wanted to separate for awhile. Then I found out he was having an affair and after I found out is when he started with the hateful mean things. He didn’t love me anymore hadn’t loved me in a few yearS. For me to move on. His affair partner has told people that I just need to give up and move on. She tries to be my kids’ mom. When he isn’t around her 24/7 he can be a decent person to talk to but when he’s been around her for several days in a row he’s a completely different person. I feel our marriage is worth fighting for because we bring out the best in eachother, we’ve always worked well together, we have similar interests. We both at one time we the happiest together. He brings out the best in me, he’s been the once for as long as I’ve been with him. He’s the only one still to this day who gives me butterflies and makes my heart skip beatS.
I went through a time of depression and didn’t want to do anything I didn’t want to clean didn’t want to go out. I was grouchy all the time I’d yell at him and the kids I called him lazy which he is not. In march he told me he wanted out and he promised to give me a chance to work on myself and get myself back together. It was just over a month that he said he wanted to separate for awhile then a week later I caught him. He said he was tired of the yelling and complaining. I tried to explain where it was coming from but right now he doesn’t want to hear any of it. He’s even gone as far as saying it’s nice to go somewhere and not have to hear his kids scream and fight. He sees his kids 4 days a month and very rarely sees them through the week if he does is maybe 5-10 minutes tops. I do not want a divorce I feel in my heart our marriage is worth working out. But he’s insisting he wants out. He’s over it. How do I win him back
