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I completely understand what you were saying, and as much as I want to stop him from breaking up. I also felt that maybe he needed this time to be single and focus on other stuff because at the time that he did get his job, he currently shares a place with his mother, and he went from not doing anything and having all the time in the world to all of a sudden having a full-time job and being the sole provider of his household since his mother Lost her job and I kind of have been thinking and thought that maybe that had something to do with it and I was just hoping that perhaps when all of that seems a bit figured out that he would be open to trying again he didn’t say yes, but he said that he might be able to do that but he also brought up the fact that he wasn’t sure when he would be ready. Again, I do not want to give up, and I want to be there to support him, and I feel that us being best friends and us being close will bring us back together at some point, but I do think I need to give him whatever space he needs and support him right now until he is ready. I am so sorry if this feels like I’m disregarding what you were saying because I’m definitely not doing that it just is me not giving up and trying to offer support whilst also having hope
Sorry again. I just wanted to bring up that he wants to be single and isn’t ready for a relationship. I still believe we have a chance and I won’t give up. I believe we can try again when he is ready. Do you have any advice for anything that can change his mind right now or any advice if I can’t do anything now and will have to later on. How do I secure this relationship now or for the future? We have always been drawn back to each other no matter how long we separate. I appreciate you taking this time to help me. Thank you
Sorry also, the termination itself was 5 weeks ago and we found two weeks before that. I think the way he explained it it seemed that when he said 2 months ago it was before we found out. Does that make any difference to what made him lose feelings?
Hi,
Yes I understand what you are saying and I did think that has something to do about it because he didn’t share too much about it and he said he was sad and he made it clear that he needed to deal with it on his own. He never brought it up again. He expressed he hasn’t had the desire to see me recently as well. I know we work well together, but he just seems lost and I don’t fully know how to help him. Do you think he really has lost feelings or that it’s deeper than that? After the termination he told me that he doesn’t want kids anymore and expected me to not be okay with that but I told him that I loved him and it didn’t matter to me anymore whether we did or not just as long as my future was with him. How do I help him and get our connection back. Is there any way to do anything to prevent the break up?
Sorry, I’m just fairly lost on what to do on the situation
