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  • Anuradha I
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    Dear Heidi,
    Yes it helps a lot. I trust myself. I trust the higher Power who knows everything and is supporting me through life every moment of every day. All is well. I am happy in that secure place. That is really important for me, connecting with the Divine. In the course of time, He will show me the way. Thank you for your beautiful advice and counsel.
    I have disconnected with him now. It feels strange and empty. But there is no other way.
    Thanks for being there.
    Love and blessings,
    Anuradha

    Anuradha I
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    Dear Heidi,
    I am really touched by your wise words. I feel blessed to connect with you and get the best advice in this difficult situation. You are a true well wisher.
    Whenever I think about this, it hurts a lot. I feel happy to be by myself nowadays. I am really interested in spirituality and have spent many years of my life connecting with God. That is the only thing which gives me solace. I love the Divine with my heart and soul. It feels relaxing to be there. I have understood that I will not actively pursue a relationship in my life again. If someone is meant to come to me as a person I can love, it will happen automatically. Trusting another person is also going to be very difficult. That’s why I need Be Irresistible to connect with like-minded people who will walk with me and guide me through this. Thank you for being there. I feel calm and I will disconnect with him completely as you have suggested.
    Thanks once again. May God bless you 💖
    Anuradha

    Anuradha I
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    Hi Heidi,
    You got it really accurately my dear. Yes, his fear is paralyzing him and he just cannot let go of it. As you rightly understand, he cannot give up his social and family conditioning for the sake of love. At the same time I know how important our relationship is for him. You are right that I can love again and I probably will open my heart to love again. It is really important for me to be with the person I love and spend my life with him. I only feel unsure about this guy. If he understands our love and how much he wants it too, he may try to reach out to me. I want to be there if he does that. How long do you think I should wait for him? How will I know if he has given up on our relationship completely? These are the things troubling me right now.
    He is still in touch with me. Do you think I should ask him directly if he is completely out of our relationship? Will that help?
    So very grateful for your beautiful message Heidi. Thank you so very much. I will eagerly look forward to your reply.
    Lots of love and blessings.
    Anuradha

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