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Honestly, right now, I want to be there for him. I just don’t know the right words to say. He gave me a ring last night. I called him coz he started posting cryptic things again like he’s alone not loved, rejected. He posted that he needs help. And deleted these stories right after I saw it. I was the only target.
Why would he even do it ?
I called him. He answered but he was not speaking. I just told him that if it feels so heavy inside I will listen to what he’s going through. It was just like that for 20 minutes until the call get cut and I didn’t call again.
He’s suicidal. I’m a nurse. I can’t ignore this kind of messages.
Yeah I know, it’s wrong. I should teach him to stand on his own but I couldn’t carry the burden of letting this slide if something happens to him.
I’m still going on with my life. The plan is, if he really needs help, just wait for him to call or message.
But if he does, what are the right things to say to make him talk? He’s always been silent even when we were younger. He keeps his pains with alone.
I know im being stupid but if there’s a chance to make his feeling fine, I’ll definitely do it. He called for help from me, I’ll be there to rescue. I won’t open up about getting back together or what, just to make his feeling light by venting out his feelings.
Hi Heidi!
Just want to say thank you. I actually realized this is the right thing to do.
Now, 6 days ago when I posted it. I’ve been peacefully sleeping, hanging out with friends, and continuing life.
I’ve been posting stories on social media (FB, IG), he’s been viewing it.
Yesterday, I went on a trip with friends. He saw it on my FB, then, after he viewed my story, he had a strange story up in whatsapp, a plain black photo. I ignored it.
Then as soon as I come home the next day, he had another whatsapp story, a photo of the street where we are living. An hour after that, the same black photo was there. And 4 hours after ( which lead me to putting this message) a balck photo with a hand, reaching out for help. This is so creepy. I want to ignore but I feel like he needs my help but I just don’t know the right words to say.
He’s not a social media kind of guy. And I know I’m just the target of the stories.
That “I need help” made me call his mobile, it’s so disturbing, but he didn’t pick-up maybe because as per whatsapp and IG data he last seen at 3:30am and I saw the story at 4:30am.
What are the right words to say? Do I need to call again to make sure he’s fine? Should I message him? I don’t know what to do. 🙁
