[Linda M]

Thanks Heidi.
I really like the way you put that. I’ll be using that if it happens again.
I didn’t make a fuss about it, just left him tell me about his weekend and be supportive unlike what I might have before.
I’m really learning so much from Luke and others, and best of all I’m applying it. I really appreciate your insight and suggestions.
Linda

[Linda M]

Yes it did. I guess I knew some of this but needed validation.

As for Heidi’s questions it’s kind of strange. When we first met I was still raw with grief from the death of my husband. I also didn’t feel like a woman because my late H was ill a long time so I hadn’t had sex in a long time. I’d also put on some unwanted weight. My sister and my BIL brought him to the airport to pick me up. We all spent the next few weeks riding motorcycles and having fun.
One thing led to another but I was determined not to fall in love so soon after my husband died. I just couldn’t stand any more hurt. He was loving and made me feel sexy and beautiful while also being someone who wasn’t afraid to help me through my grief.

We’ve spent time together over the years when I went to see my sister. Then life got in the way and we didn’t see each other for 6-7 years.
My sister got hit on her bike last fall and my mom and I went to help out for awhile.

We got to see each other a few times but the circumstances prevented more than heavy making out. I realized I had deep feelings for him that I had been denying to myself.

I visited my sister again last month and we had the chance to spend time alone together. I met quite a lot of his family including his dad, daughters and grandkids. We also had amazing sex as before although we went into our kinks more this time.

Unfortunately I didn’t work up the courage to tell him about my feelings until the last day because I really wasn’t sure how he’d respond. Yes the sex was incredible but we’d always had that connection. I was bowled over by his reply that he loved me too. So we didn’t really have to time to talk much.

Things feel back on track and Love You are back. We’re just taking it easy for now but we will be seeing each other again in two months. Until then we talk about daily things but also sexy talk.

I’m going to be using the text and other suggestions I recently learned to keep things as close to an in-person relationship status until then.

[Linda M]

Thanks for your reply. We talked last night and I realized that it was just he was busy with grandkids and work.

We live almost 900 miles apart and we both have family obligations that make it impossible at this time to think about one of us moving. I’m planning a trip there, partly for my sisters big birthday and partly just to see him. We’ll have 4-5 days alone because there’s a holiday weekend and I want my being at her birthday to be a big surprise. He seems really excited about it.
I’ve just started using some of the texts from other programs I got.
I’m looking forward to keeping this alive. Thanks for your input, I’m adding it to my things to remember.

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