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Hi Heidi G,
Yes since the last time I didn’t send any msg for him and about 3 days late he send msg I didn’t answer the next day he send another msg and there I answer him, he ask out for watch movies on Sunday 07 we going for movies and we talk lot after, in the week before mother day we talk for text almost every day I was very busy because I start new projects we don’t have any date until Mother’s Day that’s I was visitar my friend and after I driver to her mother house I meet he family for couple minutes I stay there about 40 min, and we talk more we made plans to see in the week after mother day that’s should Tuesday and Friday, but Tuesday I have kind trouble with my working have to working until late and I cancel the date about 10 min before the time we should meeting, Friday I was not feel well and I ask for changed for Saturday that’s he agree and Saturday like 30 min before the date he text min said that’s he don’t feel and he want cancel the date, I know the last 2 dates I cancel but that’s make me upset and lots anxiety because I feel like he is really sick? Or he maybe lied to me, I don’t know because this week we have Memorial Day Monday I text him ask if he has plans for next week that’s we be nice going to hike and camping that’s still on Saturday after he said he sick he never answer my msg, Sunday come and I still didn’t heard nothing from him, so I text in morning ask if he feel better, he didn’t answer, afternoon by 3 pm I call him, and the not pickup the phone so I text and him for answer because I’m worried if him is ok, he answered said that’s he feeling better only sleeping so I kind rude text back him like because I’m mad with him not give answer, we don’t talk anymore until Tuesday that’s I realize that’s I’m being rude and the last 2 date I cancel and he is ok when I cancel why I have to be means if he cancel so I text answer how is doing and also said that if he need anything or help just let me and in there for help him if the need, he text me back and also he is happy because the get approved for internship and he going to Sweden in this summer about 10 week program, I was not happy but I remember he told me about this internship 2 months ago and he was excited if he got approved back in there I was excited for him but I didn’t not know that’s is in other country I didn’t ask and he not said nothing only about the program and how that’s is good for him, I send msg back said congratulations to him I didn’t ask anything like when he going or nothing I’m just not happy but I don’t want to be mad I want to be happy because I know he need this, só Tuesday is the last time we talk and I didn’t send any msg and him don’t text me too and I don’t know when he going but is the end.
Hi Heidi G
I’m willing to get out of this and don’t send him any more messages, the msg I sent him on Monday he never replied and I haven’t sent any more msg since then, I feel split in half where the half of me that desperately want to text him and the other halt that focuses on my things that I like in my day to day, but I decide that I’m not going to send any more messages and I’m going to try to take my focus off of it even if it’s difficult but I understand that it’s the best.
Hi Heidi
Let me update you about, yes we have couples date after this last time we talk, I chose not used the date app for and trying keep date with others guys because my anxiety don’t let me I can’t go for next with know this one 🥲,
I still have lot trouble for text msg, he also doesn’t make an effort to keep a conversation going over msg, we have good conversations in person on date but in msg not, also because I feel so attractive to him is so hard to not have sex, he live so far but we keep about 2 dates last week last one Saturday we msg together on Sunday normal yesterday I send him msg and he didn’t answer until now, but I know he is ok because the upgrade the pictures on him Facebook account today, I know they’re just an excuse that I accept as a reason whe he doesn’t make an effort or connection with me more, he said I have ADHD, I’m teacher 5th grade and part time home office for data analytics Monday to Friday and in the weekends he and his friend both bought a house do on Saturday he goes to his friends house for help and on Sunday his friend goes to his house, I would really like us to have some progress together but I’m starting to think I made a lot of mistakes, I shouldn’t have gone too fast about have sex, I didn’t prioritize myself, the factors that’s hi don’t like talk on phone and we barely keep text msg, also my anxiety make every worst lot things I did is because my anxiety like send msg without waiting or think about before writing, I’m very frustrated with myself I probably lost him because I’m insecure and I’m scare to lost someone again 😭😢Just updated I decided send him msg and ask if everything is ok, he answers said that’s her very tired from the weekend (her have lots construction in the house) I take the opportunity for asking him couple question about or relationship we are only in date, her said that’s he don’t look for any relationship only for something casual date, kind broken my heart but is good to know, like I enjoy or time together and I knew we are only in date before he said that’s also I ask if when he said casual date he means he going out we other girls or only with me, he said only with me and I ask if he still want to keep dating with me he said yes, now do you think is possible make him commitment to be in relationship with me? Is any tips that’s can make want stay with me only with me? I want real relationship with him I know he said he don’t look for that’s now.
