Thank you for your input. I appreciate it.
He has been in therapy. We are both military-he is still in and dealing with ptsd. But he has told me he talks about his divorce and his relationship with me in his sessions.
I have decided that I am just going to tell him I want more and if he is t feeling it then we can break up. I’m ok with not being 100% in but I am not ok with where we are right now. We have to move at least one step forward after 3.5 months. I dont want to get to the point that I am 100% in and he is only 33% in and then I am Olathe one that is broken hearted and not ready for a relationship.