[Jeanne K]

Yes it does, I will try that, I also think I screwed up, I volunteer at the Local VFW as a waitress every other
Friday night, He came in there, the place was packed and he had to join some people at a table. when My work was done
and I was sitting at a booth figuring out paperwork, he never approached me, he just sat there with the girls at
the table. It wasn’t till they left he came over for a minute then went to the bar to talk to someone else.
I was severely upset. I then left, and when I got home, I think I screwed up by texting him, “we need to talk”
I have not heard from him since, it’s been 16 hours. I am thinking about telling him, don’t worry about the
text, and give him some excuse why I did it. Or should I tell him the truth, and I think he is a jerk for not
coming over sooner, or for not inviting me to his table. Maybe I’m over reacting. Am I

[Jeanne K]

Hi Heidi,
I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months, we only see each other 2-3 times a week. He is a loner,
and I’m alone. And there are nights I would just like to hang out at his house or he come to mine,
but I don’t want to sound needy, one of my best friends is now seeing a guy and they are together all
the time. So I don’t see her much either. I am not sure how to approach the words to say, hey, I want
to hang out with you more. I know he works during the day, and he is tired some nights. I’m at the point
I’m lost for words. He doesn’t have ED, thats for sure. When we get alone I’m gonna ask for more cuddling.

Thanks,
Jeanne

• This reply was modified 2 years ago by Jeanne K.

[Jeanne K]

Thank You Heidi,

He was sick, so I called him everyday to make sure he was OK, I got the impression he appreciated it. Today we went out for
breakfast, and I don’t want to sit at home again tonight, so I called him and said I would bring over dinner, and I wanted to
try his back muscle stimulator, before I bought one. He is more on the engineering side and he actually learned cribbage to be
on a tournament, not as my partner but he leaned so, so will see. So to learn a game I play, I think that is good, but not sure
it’s because he wants to hang out with the big wigs at the VFW with me. I told him I wanted to learn this engineering train game he
plays, he remembered that.

Middle of Sept we started dating. And last time I made a move, he said, it’s not all about Sex, I know he is right, but still. Really,
Deep down inside, I’m afraid of showing too much emotion so I don’t get hurt, maybe he is doing the same. Maybe his last divorce
hurt him bad. But when were at my house or his, I don’t feel like I get the affection I want, we both know we make each other laugh
a lot, and I know that is one thing he likes. Other wise, I don’t know how to have him give or show more intimacy toward me when were in
private. I’m only on module 9 on the lesson.

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