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Thank you, as I had said before I am in counselling, and my emotions aren’t normally a concern. We have had a couple of heated arguments however that usually leaves us both remorseful. Anyways our communication has been scarce as he basically ignored me, I have been barely able to get him to answer if I call and I finally had a conversation with him that lasted more than 10 minutes and in that time he told me that his love for me isn’t the same anymore. He said he loves me but just not enough to stay. So there’s my answer
And I should also mention that this odd behaviour (me) started around the same time I called my Dr to get a check and meds adjusted. When I spoke with her about how I was feeling mentally and physically, she gave me a combo of meds because I was dealing with a hormone imbalance. But back and forth with the doctor and it took me longer to get all of my meds so I’ve only been on them for around a week.
Thank you, I am currently doing CBD for some issues I’m having and I also have ADHD and am experiencing peri menopause. No I have never treated him quite that poorly with the exception of one very big argument. He broke up with me this time recently and I realize that the person he saw was quite a bit different than who I am. I didn’t see it until we spoke about it briefly (one sided only him speaking) and normally I am the one trying to get him to listen, I suggested couples counselling and he was for it and then recently said no. I’m just beside myself and have no idea how to get him to come back
To answer Heidi,
I wasn’t a very nice person to him. I was overly critical and condescending at times and just an overall a-hole. My thought when we got back together was to listen and read everything in good relationships and that way we will be good (follow their steps) but I was acting like a drill Sargent instead of enjoying my partner. We have been together for 4 years. I hurt him this past April by breaking up with him (apparently this took him by surprise) I tried to talk to him and tried to warn him but he was oblivious (and I was actually pretty clear) however the pain this caused him was enough to change him a bit. I shouldn’t have just left and should have bugged him more to go see a counsellor but I didn’t. And when I can back this time I said we could if he wanted and he said no. Now he thinks that us even trying last time was a mistake. I disagree but I was being a tyrant and if I was him I’d be upset too. I didn’t even realize how bad I had been being and wished he had of spoke to me first and earlier but anyway I don’t know how to fix this or get him back. I’m not sure how or what ideas to use.
