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I know it will take time but I want to try every possible ways for him. I love him too much Heidi that’s the main reason
Hi Heidi
The objective is to restart everything again. But to do that I’ve got to have a communication with me. I don’t want to start from somewhere where everything is just not correct and I want it to be all new just giving new opportunities to us. Maybe I wrongly expressed myself but in my mind starting afresh is the objectiveNo I’m not meeting anyone and his friends told me that so that I move on. I’m not meeting anyone and i love him I didn’t play with him and his feelings. When he wanted me he did all that he could to convince me but today I want to do all to rekindle things. I don’t want to let go, and I want to save this relationship and I want to do all I can to do that. I got blocked because on a morning during day work I told him let’s get back and he got irritated and blocked me. The few times I called him from other numbers he spoke of a few things about what was happening around him and when I told him to unblock he starts getting irritated.
I still want him Heidi because we have done a lot for each other to have that relationship and I want to save itHi Heidi,
Thanks for your response. But in the culture I’m in, it’s quite difficult when the parents know you are seeing someone. But at the stage I’m in, if we get back together, they will have to come to know about it. And I’m ready for that.
What do you suggest me to do to rekindle this relationship. I’m ready for it Heidi. Yes the stalking thing he told our mutual friend like more than 4 months ago so I guess he is not aware I’m still stalking him.
Sending the email is okay in the next few weeks but I’m afraid that he won’t be knowing anything about what I’m doing like taking a step back.
Even his friends won’t help me and as I told you they told me he got someone else and he has move on, I have to move on and they don’t get into couple thing….so can’t expect anything from themI’m afraid he will block me on the email or inform the police about my email I sent him. Is that harassing him?
We knew each other from university and we talked everyday without missing a day. The love care trust and honesty was there. Communication was virtual I agree but it was there. Nothing was hidden.
People at my house didn’t know I was in a relationship so that was not the reason. The reason was just that telling I’m going out and getting questions.
Him going to another woman was the reason he gave me which I don’t think is true. We never live together but we were always there for each other. Even after the break up when I heard he was looking for jobs, I did my best to get him a job. Even that he did not say thanks.Reasons why I love him are many but I know his behaviour is not correct. Actually with all his exes, he block them and no contact with them.
To go and meet him today, I’ll do it no matter what because I got a lesson and understood that was something important in the relationship.
I’ve fell in love thrice but been in a relationship only with this one boy.
Everything was fine Heidi.
Trust me I love him and still want him back for us to be happy and live life. Our motto in life was sameHi Heidi how are you
I’m 25 years and Indian culture and he is of Muslim culture and Despite that still fighting for him. Love him a lot Heidi.I’ve taken the courage to go out now and it won’t be of an issue.
If thinking well our goals what we wanted to achieve as individuals and partners were so much aligned and we wanted to be together to achieve this. We like to work hard and we still do. Only this thing I guess it got accumulated and destroyed everything.I’m not yet blocked on the email but I’m afraid if he blocks me there.
I’m thinking of giving him a few days and then send him a handwritten letter on his email as a picture.
Any other ways we can build that trust. I really love him and he was always there for us and now he said it’s over.
It’s so hard Heidi and my situations with love had always been the worst. But today I want that guy, im not being selfish but I want to do everything I can for him. Please help meWhy he felt bored was that we didn’t meet often maybe once a month or one few months but we were always chatting everyday , not a single day missed. Why I didn’t meet him often because I had to lie at home to get out and i can’t lie and this was a major issue.
Hi Heidi,
Thanks but how will I build the trust again when I’m blocked everywhere?
I don’t have any access to him and as for stalking him, he doesn’t know I still do that. With no access, how do you want me to build that trust?
I’m also afraid of him being in a relationshipI’m not falling in love again because it’s the third time I’m going through this. I don’t have much energy now to fight. If it’s not him it’s no one
We broke up because he got bored of the relationship. To get away from my queries he said he got someone else. Im not obsessed by him but want him in my life. Yeah around him im happy and still living due to responsibilities. I want to send him an email and tell him ‘I miss you and wanna speak with you’
I agree that he has blocked me everywhere but I still want to rekindle this relationship. Please show me ways. He doesn’t have any access to me and he won’t be knowing anything about me.
Help me to rekindle this relationship
