[Natalie M]

Hi thanks for replying. He’s not actually dating anyone else it’s just his fantasy. (Tbh I think he met up with her 2 wkds ago and it didn’t work out – because he was in a really really bad mood, acting really strange on the phone and muttering about someone falling over and hurting themselves so he couldn’t do what he wanted to and he was all alone) that’s just my belief.

I feel safe with him when he’s here because I just do. He’s really caring and kind and I love the way he looks at me, like he’s really delighted.

I’m happy he at least acknowledges he has feelings for me. I don’t think he’s used to what a long term relationship feels like, he’s never really been in one.

I’ve pulled myself back to be honest. I’m considering the thought of dating someone else. Since I did that he’s been talking to me every night. He checks in with me before going to bed, comes over every 4-5 days. He lives an hours drive away. We’ve got a date planned next week in his home town.

I felt angry at that woman because he’d posted about me on fb weeks ago, so how come she didn’t even read his fb posts. I’m still not on his fb and I feel more secure now I’m not looking for evidence we’re in a relationship.

I think I’ve just learned how to not get so caught up in the forever. It might work between us eventually but I’m okay if it doesn’t

[Natalie M]

Hi thanks for the reply.I feel safe when I’m with him, I feel happy when I see him online. We broke up again today. He wants to date someone else he thinks he might want to be with. I hope she falls off a cliff

He’s really stressed at work he’s got a new job he’s confused and not thinking straight I was out at the time he told me off for not having a map when I’m out walking in the countryside alone. He’s always gone with me before

I asked him later on WhatsApp what I need and we had a long chat about it, he says he’s happy to help me anytime. I feel really safe and happy just knowing him. I really can’t stand the thought of him being with someone else.

He said he kind of loves me in a way but he’s emotionally attached to all these women that throw themselves at him on dating apps and he hates himself for it.

I’ve deleted him off fb because I know it’ll kill me if I see him having fun with other people. But I miss him a lot I think he misses me but he wants to try with this other person

I messaged a woman on fb I thought he was texting. Not a man. I think it’s the one he wants to date. She had the nerve to ask if he knew me. Yes dear, I’m the one he’s been seeing for 4 months!!! So tempting to msg her again with photos but I won’t. That’s what broke his “trust” probably because I put his plan b in jeopardy right?

[Natalie M]

Hi thanks for the reply. We did break up for a week because he was upset I’d messaged someone on fb. But then he cried his eyes out all week on video chat and I really missed him. In the end I said I’d like to see him, he said he didn’t know what it would achieve, but then after a few minutes he said he’d like to come over that night. So we kind of made up. he flip flops between wanting a relationship and wanting to take it slow. He apologised for taking me for granted and even turned his phone off all the time he was here.

He says he’s really scared of getting serious that he’s never dated anyone longer than 2-3 months. There was someone a year ago that hurt him he’s still fb friends with. He said to me a couple of days ago on video chat that he does flirt with other women but he’s not met up with anyone else. I think that’s probably true because he literally doesn’t have time to, he’s either at work or with me or video chatting to me all night.

We did get on really well when we first met each other and I really like him a lot. I’m just sad he’s distracted by other women all the time. Like how many women does he need? There’s no such thing as the perfect partner so what’s he waiting for. Makes no sense to me at all

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