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Can I get help here?

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P.S: we are both Muslims so we don’t have sexual relationships before marriage.

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Hello Coach Spyce,
Thank you for replying to me.
Yes we have been going out almost every weekend. But without my kids. He never met my kids but we definitely talked about them a lot. I have a live in Nanny who helps me with the kids. on weekends I would spend the morning with my kids and then put my kids to sleep, meet him in the evenings.
We would go to movies, dinners out or even going for long walks and talking for hours.
After work we hang out for coffee outside work.
As I said he never met my kids or asked me to meet them (yet). We have lots of discussions about how they are doing, their school, the nanny as he’s been checking on how is everything going. The same has been happening for 3 months now and he hasn’t even told me yet he likes me or have feelings for me.
When we go for a walk we sometimes hold hands, or I’m walking holding his arm. In the movies we are sitting very close to each other’s our arms touching each other’s so it’s obvious we are not on the friend zones.
I am confused he haven’t told me he likes me or have feelings for me yet but still asking me out and making plans for almost every weekend.
What does that mean? Is he playing around? Is he taking it slowly? Or shall I just forget the idea that any man could commit to a single mother?

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