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I am willing to write something short and to the point of staying true to giving him the respect he needs and boundaries he needs for him at this time. Thank you. This is helpful!!
Hi love the response but I’m scared to say anything without feeling like I’m going to push him away farther. Right now I’m maintaining no contact. Yes it’s hard and yea it hurts because he isn’t reaching out but I thought guys need that time to see I’m not chasing him.
Thank you for the response. 1) therapy is helping and I have been consistent for 90 days which says a lot because I normally start and quit. I have placed legal parameters in place to help with the situations. So it is better for me indeed. 2) yes I can see that it was overwhelming for him. I do not know his needs though now. Well, he says he is at peace when he isn’t around. So lucky him. When he does come back he says it gives him anxiety because he feels like he is expected to come home and talk. Which he says he isn’t eager to do. He says he doesn’t want a relationship right now he wants to focus on healing himself. But I feel like it’s an excuse because he was always the one telling me to not focus on the negative and be positive. I feel like he is is now in that place of negativity. Where I am now happy and trying to be in peace.
