I wanted to add that I’m the first person that he’s really dated since his divorce (she left him for another man 6 years ago) so he’s scared about me being the right one because he doesn’t know what else is out there and doesn’t want to get divorced again. I don’t like that I’m more attached than he is and he would be okay without me but I would be devastated. It hurts when I feel like I want him more than he wants me and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m trying to be patient while he figures things out, but it’s hard.