[Grace C]

I agree with what you’re saying Heidi and appreciate your feedback. I think I struggle to find a happy medium between being too “chill” and too “aggressive”, which translate (quite literally) into my being passive aggressive. I definitely agree that I need to communicate and cope more effectively, but I find it difficult to determine which situations are worth me making a statement, and standing up for myself, versus which ones I should just let go.

Can you better explain how you got to the conclusion of his appreciation for me, and where I was maybe a bit high maintenance?

In response to your last question, I think my mind is a little foggy right now, just because of how suddenly and unexpectedly this happened. I can really only think of the good things, and not so much the things that actually did really annoy the crap out of me (like his laugh… which is probably a tough one). I also see him often at school, so that doesn’t help. (I saw him yesterday with a girl he had hooked up with previously). I have heard from others that he is a guy that blossomed in grad school (became more fit, confident, etc.), and has a tendency to dote women with affection, and make them feel like he wants to be serious when he doesn’t. Although, in this case, he did decide he wanted exclusivity…

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